In a previous article, I vividly described “The Hummingbird Effect” in a metaphor to illustrate that sometimes when trying harder and harder and more frantically and urgently doing more of what doesn’t work to solve a problem—actually encourages the dreaded problem to continue AND get larger and enlarge into a megalo-fear. In the story of the Hummingbird that I told, you learned how the harder “Birdee” flew UP knocking her head against the white ceiling of my garage, the more disoriented and “lost” she became.
GETTING OUT OF THE BOX YOU FIND YOURSELF IN
The solution, of course, was to fly DOWN and circle BACK to get out of the box. Just goes to show, the solutions to your problem in your organization, company or family may not be to go UP and FORWARD…but to go fly down and circle back, sometimes. So, think of the “The Hummingbird Effect” and other animal parables the next time you feel panicked and trapped in a box that you haven’t designed but a box you need to exit, nonetheless.
SO HOW TO SCORE A NEW START TO SOLVE OLD PROBLEMS?
Here are NINE WAYS TO SCORE A NEW START TO OLD PROBLEMS AT WORK AND HOME:
1. BE FULL OF INTEGRITY…NOT FULL OF ‘IT’
2. BLAME THE BOONDOGGLE, NOT THE BIRD
3. DON’T WORRY ABOUT THE OTHER FEATHER DROPPING…BECAUSE IT WILL
4. ANXIETY IS BORROWING TROUBLE…SO DON’T TAKE OUT A LOAN
5. YOU CAN FIX STUPID BY DOING LESS OF WHAT ISN’T WORKING…AND DOING MORE OF WHAT IS WORKING
6. BE A SMART COMMUNICATOR: KNOW THE HARDER YOU TRY, THE BEHINDER YOU GET, SOMETIMES
7. WHEN YOU TIRE YOURSELF OUT…REST AND RE-FUEL
8. IF WHAT ISN’T WORKING STILL ISN’T WORKING…TRY DOING THE OPPOSITE FOR A CHANGE
9. DO LESS WHEN DOING MORE ISN’T WORKING OUT SO WELL FOR YOU
So when at first you don’t succeed…try, try doing something different! In fact, good leaders know how “IT’s NOT FAIR!” IS supremely fair.